My buddy Tony has son thats 26, who won't move out or pay bills. How do I get him...

[policegirl]

...to be realistic ? I hate to see my buddy struggle to pay the bills when his son 26yrs. old, lives there & won't pay a dime! Tony almost lost the house . He needs someone to say something that will get him to understand that this is not right. I don't know what to say to him. can you help me?

[pumpkinzzz]

You need to explain to him that 26 is old enough to have responsibility and be a man. He needs to get a job and help pay the bills or move out. I'm sure your friend won't be interested in kicking him out, but perhaps he should make his son think he will if he doesn't get his act together. If he moves out or gets a job, either well it will help your friend.